A lot of times people say that social media can hurt a marriage. Jealousy, feelings of inadequacy, and more can happen when looking at other people’s pictures on Facebook. Yet, I believe that if used correctly social media can hep enhance your date night with your spouse. Here are the five tips on how to use social media to enhance your date night. (I think I am on a number five kick since I am celebrating five years of marriage.)
1. Like your local town’s page as well as surrounding towns’ pages
Towns continually update their pages not only with news, but also with new businesses opening up and community events. Trae and I just learned that our town is holding its first food truck rodeo thanks to its Faceobok page. Also, thanks to the town’s Facebook page, we learned one of our favorite, but normally too expensive to eat at, restaurants is holding a tasting for its new menu items. Looks like we have two yummy dates in our future! We also like Raleigh’s page and get tons of updates of fun events and downtown festivals that are only a short drive away. Not too long ago we went to watch The Goonies (Trae’s favorite movie) for free in Raleigh’s town square. Don’t forget to check to see if your town’s downtown has their own Facebook page. A lot of times towns will have one main Facebook page and then one downtown page. Greenville, SC has two pages, and I used to get a lot of great ideas and updates from their downtown page.
2. Like restaurant pages
Many times new restaurants will have opening specials or soft openings to help drum up business. Grand openings or soft openings tend to have special deals and be cheaper then going when after the restaurant has been open after awhile. You can learn about these new restaurants by like town pages, who tend to feature new businesses. Once you learn about the new restaurant, go ahead and like its page so you can be notified when the restaurant opens. Also, like your favorite restaurants; they will feature special nights, such as trivia, drink specials, or themed dinners on their pages. Every once in awhile our favorite pub will have tap takeovers, and we get to try new beers that aren’t sold in the area yet. Trae, since he homebrews, loves going to the pub during tap takeovers so he can try new beers at a reduced rate.
3. Like museums, art galleries, and business pages
We love going to art galleries. When a new artist is feature, the gallery puts on an opening reception with free food and drinks. These opening receptions happen sporadically so liking the gallery’s Facebook page is a good way to keep up with the receptions. Also museums tend to have appreciation days where people can get in for a reduced rate or free. One historical site has a teachers’ appreciation day and we can view a historic home for free. The home, however, never lists this date on its website; it can only be found on its social media pages.
4. Like a local college’s page
Any community college or university’s social media page is a great way to learn about events. A lot of guest speakers will come and those events are normally free to the public. I recently saw Frank Warren from PostSecret and got to talk to him for about 30 minutes afterwards because all the students had left. Five people stayed behind to have books signed. Also, our local university puts on wonderful theater productions and the tickets are always very reasonable. We not only liked the college’s page, but also the college’s theater department’s page in order to get the dates of when the productions are going on.
5. Enter contests
Sounds crazy, but I promise you that people do in fact win those contests. Trae and I just won a prize package valuing over $500 to the Biltmore Estate. We got a catered lunch in the middle of the Estate’s winery as well as an exclusive behind the scenes tour of the winery. We also go a roof top tour of the house as a part of the prize. I constantly enter legit Facebook contests, and I have won two in the last six months.